Healthy Habits of Happy Couples
By Refadoc, Posted on : Monday, 22 September 2014 - 5:57 pm IST
Happiness is just a state of mind. However, researchers have been able to find out some ways via which connections between couples can move from good to great! Take a look at our best chosen ways via which couples can find happiness and enhance the satisfaction level between themselves:
Triple A’s Admiration, Affection and Appreciation:
We often tend to make up after a fight. However, before you make up with your partner after a fight, remember all the positive things which either one of you have done for each other. This is going to help you to express your love and admiration for each other in a more positive way. Also, from time to time, make sure that you showcase your affection for each other in little ways which do not go unnoticed by either one of you. Also go ahead and make sure that you decrease the negativity in your relationship by taking a look at the positive ones and indulging in forgiveness. Appreciate and be affectionate towards your partner in order to build a strong and blissful relationship.
Make Room for the other person:
Individuality is the latest trend in the market. There is no doubt in the fact that our lives have been busier than ever. There are demands from the home, from the workplace and from the spouse and sometimes, it becomes very difficult to manage all three of them at the same time. Often, partners tend to forget to make some time for their other half with their lives. However, successful couples all over the world are known to make space for one another in their life by filling their minds with the snippets of useful information such as the favorite food or restaurant of their other half. Asking questions off one another or being aware of small things which remind you of the other person are the best keys towards running a long and successful relationship.
Influencing One Another:
Power in a relationship is not the control which you have over each other. It is, however, the influence which you have on your other half and the ways in which you can change their perception towards things. Asking each other’s help in doing the household chores or caring towards each other’s feelings can pave the way towards building a strong and healthy relationship. Accepting influence from each other can help you to interact positively with each other. Acceptance goes a long way to make sure that you contribute towards the relationship in your own way and also help to solve the persisting problems in your relationship, if there are any.
Knowing Your Partner, Inside Out:
Most of us tend to live more in our heads, than outside it. Therefore, it is better to know the world in which our partner dwells, a world which is otherwise unknown to us. Conflicts often tend to arise when we are not able to understand what our partner is trying to convey to us. Sometimes, all it takes is to see the world from a different perspective in order to get rid of all the conflicts. Trying to share the dreams of being together to interpreting what is bothering your other half can go out to help you forge lifelong relationships. Also, if your other half has a dream which he or she is long seeking to fulfil, then your support in achieving those are going to be appreciated a long way.
There is no doubt in the fact that relationships need hard work and a lot of effort to build. However, inculcating some habits such as the above mentioned are the ones which can help you to build a strong, stable and a steady relationship.